“Let’s talk about sex baby!”
It's Feelings Friday!
She’s Queer honey!
What does that mean?
Well, Webster’s defines “Queer”as: a person who is gay, lesbian, bisexual, pansexual, or otherwise not heterosexual. https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/queer
Why don’t I identify as bisexual?
Well, I do I guess...
For me, labels aren’t really important. I like who I like. I am attracted to the person not how they identify. Queer for me also works because I will (jokingly) say I am half gay man and half lesbian.
A Tale of 4 Titties (I am so punny!LOL!)
I have always been attracted to women. Ironically, I only came out a few years ago. I wasn’t in denial, I just think that labels are overrated. When I finally realized that I was queer, I kind of laughed to myself like “duh girl!”
Within the past 2 months, I started seeing this woman. Whoooo Chile! Let me tell you... I am experiencing pleasure like I have never felt before.
It’s not even just on a physical level. Being with her is wholly different on an intellectual level as well. We connect emotionally and physically in a way I didn’t think was possible.
This is very new for both of us, so we are taking it slow(ish lmao) but so far it has been wonderful.
Now here’s where it get’s delicious honey... She is into BDSM and she wants me to be her submissive!!
*hold while I put on some pearls to clutch*
Lavynder Lee does NOT submit!
Polyamory vs. Monogamy
I may be using some terms you are unfamiliar with but baby, get to googling!
I am polyamorous. For me, this means I have multiple romantic partners. There is not one size fits all for polyamorous people. Some also describe this as having open relationships. Now, polyamory is not to be confused with polygamy. That is usually the practice of one man with multiple wives for example (heterosexual relationships typically but not always).
I was in a (mostly) monogamous relationship for 11 years with my husband, and it was difficult for me. I have always been polyamorous but I didn’t necessarily know it until I started meeting other poly people in Houston.
Monogamy is not my jam. The thought of being one person’s EVERYTHING for the rest of my life is a hard pass. It is impossible to be someone’s everything. I will go into my philosophy on this more in other articles.
I hope you enjoyed this first chapter in the ever evolving novel of Lavynder! There is DEFINITELY more to cum (ha!)! Don’t forget to subscribe for updates and I will see you next time on “It’s Feelings Friday!” xoxo
Queer, millennial mum of 2 just tryin' to make it...